Huge Gaps Exist in Internet Safety Education

March 1, 2010

Staysafe Online released today a new study on the state of  U.S. K‐12 Cyberethics, Cybersafety and Cybersecurity Curriculum, and it’s a sobering read.

15 years after the Internet went mainstream, America’s young people still are not receiving adequate instruction in the use of digital technology and cyberspace navigation in a safe, secure and responsible manner and are ill-prepared to address these subjects, according to the study.

Among the study findings:

  • There is strong agreement on the need to teach online skills: Nearly all technology coordinators (100%), school administrators (97%), and teachers (95%) agree cyberethics, cybersafety, and cybersecurity curriculum should be taught in schools.
  • Confusion reigns on where the responsibility for internet skills education lies. Teachers (72%) and technology coordinators (58%) are most likely to think parents are primarily responsible for teaching children to use computers safely and securely, while school administrators (51%) are most likely to think teachers/schools are primarily responsible.
  • Who teaches the teachers? The lack of clarity over who should teach internet skills  may be due in large part to the lack of training teachers have received on these subjects. Over three quarters of teachers have spent less than six hours on any type of professional development education related to cyberethics, cybersafety and cybersecurity within the last 12 months.
  • More than half schools/school districts require content coverage in cyberethics cybersafety and cybersecurity – but that means nearly half of the schools don’t.
  • Integration of key cyberethics, -security, and -safety topics into everyday instructional activities is low. For example, only 27% of teachers taught about the safe use of social networks, only 18% taught about scams, fraud and social engineering, and only 19% taught about safe passwords in the past 12 months. Additionally, 32% of teachers indicated they had not taught cyberethics, and 44% of teachers had not taught cybersafety or cybersecurity.
  • Rather than teach skills and ethics, schools focus on blocking technologies. Over 90% of schools have installed digital defenses, like as filtering and blocking social network sites. Blocking technologies may help reduce exposure to online risks in school, and limit school’s liability, but they do not prepare students to act safely or responsibly when accessing the Internet in other locations.

Addressing the research findings, Jacqueline Beauchere, a Director in Microsoft Corporation’s Trustworthy Computing Group and the company’s representative to NCSA’s Board of Directors said, “Schools can be assisted via partnerships between public and private-sector entities. Such partnerships encourage information and idea-sharing and, most importantly, help give teachers the training they need and want so they can instruct their students about cybersecurity, cybersafety and cyberethics.  Microsoft supports efforts to provide teacher training, and is proud to be one partner, helping to provide K-12 educators across the U.S. the resources they need and the training they seek.”

The ramifications of this gap in internet education not places our youth at risk today, but has a long term impact in how well situated the US will be to compete in the global economy moving forward.

“The study illuminates that there is no cohesive effort to provide young people the education they need to safely and securely navigate the digital age and prepare them as digital citizens and employees,” said Michael Kaiser, Executive Director of the National Cyber Security Alliance.  “Unfortunately, we are not meeting the needs of schools, teachers, or students.  President Obama in his Cyberspace Policy Review released last year specifically calls for a ‘K-12 cybersecurity education program for digital safety, ethics and security.’ Now is the time for a national consensus to move forward to achieve that goal.”

Amen.

Linda


Announcing our Courageous Parents, Confident Kids book cover and contents

February 26, 2010

Announcing the Courageous Parents, Confident Kids book cover and a first peek at the content by chapters.

I’ve blogged and Tweeted about this book several times, but we now have the cover formalized and permission to share with you the chapter outline.

This book is a tremendous collaborative effort brought about by the vision and determination of Amy Tiemann, Ph.D. and author of several books and articles – her latest book was Mojo Mom: Nurturing Your Self While Raising a Family.

The new book will be released in paperback on April  18th, but we are giving the book away as a free digital download to people who sign up for a free copy on MojoMom.com before April 18th. The digital download will be packaged as a PDF file so it can be read on any computer, or printed out.  This is an incredible opportunity to gain valuable information and insight free of charge.

Here is a preview of Courageous Parents, Confident Kids — Letting Go So You Both Can Grow

Introduction by the Editor, Amy Tiemann, Ph.D., author Mojo Mom: Nurturing Your Self While Raising a Family.

Part 1: The Courage to Invest in Your Own Development

Part 2: Developing Your Own Courageous Parenting Style

  • The Courage to Let Our Kids Solve Their Own Problems by Maya Frost, international lifestyle design expert and author of The New Global Student.
  • The Power of Personal Significance for Kids of All Ages by Amy McCready, parent educator and founder of  Positive Parenting Solutions.
  • I’m Worried I Worry Too Much, But How Do I Stop? by Jamie Woolf, leadership expert and author of Mom-In Chief.

Part 3: Real-world Safety Skills for All

Part 4: Finding Your Voice and Raising It for the Community

  • Becoming a Political Parent: PunditMom on Mothers Raising Their Voices Online by Joanne Bamberger, journalist and PunditMom blogger.
  • Building a Family-friendly America: Challenge and Progress Through the Eyes of MomsRising.org by Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner, co-founder and Executive Director of MomsRising.org
  • It Takes a Motherhood by Cooper Munroe and Emily McKhann, co-creators of the award-winning online community, TheMotherhood.com

The goal of Courageous Parents, Confident Kids is to share core concepts and skills you can build on as you raise a family, participate in your community, and continue your own development. I hope you enjoy the book.

Linda


New Ad Council Message – Beware What you Share

February 19, 2010

The ad council and their Internet Safety Coalition have worked for over a year to create researched, meaningful, messaging for youth about online behaviors and safety.

The result is a new campaign with the tag Beware what you share.  The accompanying text is “Every time you write, post, or send anything digitally, it creates the real-life impression people have of you. So, proceed with caution. Your messages and images may get passed around, even if you think they won’t.  Once you hit “send,” it’s out there forever.”

As you talk to youth, this is a great message to convey. It isn’t fear based, it is actionable, and research testing shows that it resonates well with the audience.

Looking for more Public Service Announcements on Internet Safety from the Ad Council? Check out http://www.adcouncil.org/default.aspx?id=56

Linda


School accused of spying on kids via school issued laptops with webcams

February 19, 2010

In what appears to be a shocking case, a Philadelphia family has sued their school district for using webcams in school-issued laptops to spy on students and their families in their homes.

According to an article in the Seattle Times, the family discovered that webcam images had been taken from inside their home when the vice principal told child that school officials thought he had engaged in improper behavior at home. The vice principal “cited as evidence a photograph from the webcam embedded in minor plaintiff’s personal laptop issued by the school district,” according to the law suit. The vice principal later confirmed to the family that the school had the ability to activate the webcams remotely, according to the suit, which was filed Tuesday and which seeks class-action status.

The Lower Merion School District officials stated that the Apple laptops given to approximately 2,300 students in the districts two high schools “contain a security feature intended to track lost, stolen and missing laptops.”

The security feature was intended to only be activated “if there was a report that a computer was stolen. The next time a person opened it up, it would take their picture and give us their IP [Internet protocol] address, the location of where it was coming from” according to Virginia DiMedio, the school district’s technology director until she retired last summer.

She said that feature had been used several times to trace stolen laptops, but there had been no discussion of using that capability to monitor students’ behavior. “I can’t imagine anyone in the district did anything other than track stolen computers,” she said.

The class action lawsuit raises additional concerns about school-issued laptops, according to Kevin Bankston a senior staff attorney for the Electronic Freedom Foundation. “I’ve never heard of anything this egregious. Nobody would have imagined that schools would peer into students’ private homes and even bedrooms without any kind of justification.”

School officials said Thursday that the tracking feature was deactivated and would not be reactivated “without express written notification to all students and families.”

This case bears close scrutiny and gives reason for every family with a school laptop to question their school’s policies and remote access capabilities – and perhaps place tape over the webcam.

Linda


Mitigate Risks When Using Shortened URL’s

February 11, 2010

Lengthy URLs are hard to share with others, difficult (if not impossible) to remember, are more likely to break in emails, and can simply be too long to fit into short messaging sites like Twitter – which limits posts to 140 characters. To solve all these issues, several great free programs are available to shorten URL’s.

Of course, criminals are not stupid. Internet tools that are helpful for good users can be even handier for crooks. Spammers, scammers, ID thieves, etc. use URL shortening tools in hopes of increasing your likelihood of landing on their malicious sites.

For example, if you received an email, or saw a posting saying “hey, check out these cool cartoons” and saw the URL you were directed to click on was http://let-me-give-you-a-nasty-virus, you wouldn’t click on it. However, if the URL was shortened to look like http://bit.ly.12xtdf, you might not take the same care – even though it takes you to the exact same malicious site.

To reap the benefits of shortened URL’s without falling victim to criminals, stick to the advice that you only click on links from trusted sources, or on trusted sites – or find the site yourself. The trick is how to find out what site is hidden behind that shortened URL begin testing it for safety….

Below are the instructions for creating a shortened URL, AND for discovering the safety of a shortened URL:

Creating a shortened URL:

  1. Begin by selecting a URL shortening service like TinyURL, Doiop, MemURL.com, ReadthisURL, dwarfURL.com, or bit.ly
  2. Enter the full length URL into the specified field
  3. Create a short name (optional in some, not available in other products)
  4. Then, press the button to generate the new, shorter version

My personal favorite URL shortener is TinyURL.com because it offers two great features. (Note: my views are my own, I do not accept remuneration to promote any service) The first great feature is the ability to customize your shortened URL, which is a whole lot more intelligible than the automatically generated random number and letter sequences the service creates on its own.

The second great feature is their preview option. Though it adds 8 additional characters, using the preview feature allows recipients to see the original URL of the site they will be taken to if they proceed. See the example here:

Discovering the safety of a Shortened URL:

If the shortened URL was created using TinyURL, and the creator used the preview feature, click on the preview link. It will take you to a landing page that shows the full URL address (see image). You can compare this to the original URL in the previous image and see they are a match.

To discover where other shortened links are going to take you requires using an “UNshortening tool”, several of which are also free.

If you frequently consider clicking on shortened links, installing a free tool like UnShortenEmAll, TinyURL Decoder Expand url shortening service urls make a lot of sense, these will either automatically display the URLs in their original form, or show you the real URL if you hover over them. All of these require that you download a Greasemonkey plugin to your Firefox browser to run, but they’re easy to install and use.

If you only occasionally consider clicking on shortened links, the website Unshorten.com may be just right for you. To use it, simply enter in the shortened URL, and it will return the real location as shown in the image below:

Keep in mind that simply discovering the full URL, does not mean the site is legitimate – it just means you’re ready to use standard methods for determining the safety of a site

Steer don’t be pulled. Once you have found the proper URL, use a search engine – combined with a malware filter like McAfee’s Site Advisor (it’s free) to be sure the site is legitimate before clicking the link.

In the example above, you see that full URL behind the link blogof.francescomugnai.com. To check the safety of this website, I copied and pasted this text into the SEARCH box (not address field) of your search engine and looked to see two things. 1) The site exists, and 2) the site has been tested by McAfee Site Advisor’s malware filters and found to be safe (the little green check mark next to each result is how McAfee’s tool shows the safety or risk level of tested sites.)

Keep your computer protected at all times using anti-virus, anti-spam, and anti-phishing tools and follow these simple safety steps when navigating to websites to have a safer, more enjoyable online experience.

Linda


Gangs use of the Internet and Cell Phones

February 11, 2010

There are more than 20,000 gangs, with collectively over 1 million members in the United States. Gangs are present in all 50 states, the District of Columbia, and all U.S. territories, according to the Attorney General’s report to congress on the growth of violent street gangs in suburban areas (April 2008). Research by the Justice Department’s National Gang Intelligence Center estimates that 147,000 gang members sit in U.S. prisons or jails, and that criminal gangs are responsible for up to 80% of crimes committed in communities across the nation. 80 percent – it is hard to digest such an appalling statistic.

“Gangs have long posed a threat to public safety, but as this study shows, gang activity is no longer merely a problem for urban areas. Gang members are increasingly moving to suburban America, bringing with them the potential for increased crime and violence,” said Assistant Director Kenneth W. Kaiser, FBI Criminal Investigative Division. Gang members are migrating from urban to suburban and rural areas, expanding the gangs’ influence in most regions. They are doing so for a variety of reasons, including expanding drug distribution territories, increasing illicit revenue, recruiting new members, hiding from law enforcement, and escaping from other gangs.

Gangs, like organized crime rings, have taken to the Internet as a facilitator in sending messages to associates throughout the U.S. and other countries – including deported gang members, deliver threats, assert territorial boundaries that used to be scrawled as graffiti across buildings, fences, and signs, brag, and conduct ‘business’. Gang business includes drug trafficking, human trafficking, prostitution, weapons trafficking, smuggling illegal aliens across borders, murder, theft, fraud, armed robbery, auto theft home invasions, gang rapes, and more. (Source FBI 2009)

Gangs continue to recruit via traditional methods in their neighborhoods and through family members. law enforcement agencies report seeing 3rd generation gang members where grandfathers, fathers and sons are all members. The internet however has over the last 8 years increasingly become a key recruitment tool to help gangs expand, both in terms of territory (gangs are now are established in over 2,500 cities across the country) and the number of members in each gang.

Age of recruits continues to drop

Gang members are grooming recruits as young as 2nd graders according to a study sited in The Oklahoman (Nov 2009), though most frequently targeted are the tweeners in 5th – 7th grade age range. The link to schools is crucial to gangs not only for recruiting purposes, but also as a key drug distribution channel.

School infiltration is so valuable that law enforcement agencies several states report  gangs are directing teenage members who had dropped out of school to reenroll, primarily to recruit new members and sell drugs. These kids typically use cell phones to conduct drug transactions and prearrange meetings with customers.

The most recent statistics from the Bureau of Justice Statistics and the National Center for Education only shows data through 2005, but we should expect to see stark increases in their next biennial report. “We’re seeing the gang members coming back from prison looking more and more to those middle schoolers and the younger kids to recruit them,” said Susan Manheimer San Mateo Police Chief, who speaks for the San Mateo County gang task force.

Gang outreach and ‘style’

Gang leaders know kids socialize on sites such as Facebook and YouTube, and they are actively reaching out through popular online services to create a new generation of gang members. They describe gang life as glamorous, and seductive. Recruiters tell of a life of power, leisure, and wealth, and instant gratification, as well as a ‘family’ and a sense of belonging and acceptance that many kids desperately want. They glorify the danger and the excitement.

Gangs have pushed hard to make gang clothing a fashion statement to such an extent that Gang apparel can be seen everywhere as a fashion statement for young people – on MTV and other teen sites and stations. They use images of rap artists like Snoop Dogg, and promote music with gang themes, violence and attire. Many of today’s youth who are not connected with gangs wear the gang styles and colors because of the cool factor, certainly wearing the fashion does not make a kid a gang member. However, wearing gang fashion can have tragic consequences when kids are mistaken for being a member of a rival gang. (See what happens when your clothing makes you look like a gang member links below)

Gang Websites

For the most part, gangs use the same sites everyone else does – MySpace, Facebook, YouTube, Twitter, and so on.

There are tens of thousands of websites, message boards and chatrooms created by gang members or young gang wanna be’s. These ‘web-banging’, ‘cyberbanging’ ‘netbanging’ ‘phone-banging’ sites are typically set to public viewing, and are places to hang out online like everyone else – but with the gangsta cult and violence highly glorified through photos, music, gang signs, guns, tats, colors, videos, etc. They frequently contain memorials to gang members who have been killed or are incarcerated.

The videos and photos posted may just be about the ‘life’, but they frequently include documentation of crimes they want to brag about – beatings, robberies, graffiti, etc. where everyone in the video has their face covered to avoid identification (though the bragging they do online has helped solve several cases). The sites are also used to trash rivals and convey threats and intimidate ‘bystanders’.

The fact that so many identify themselves on their sites makes they relatively easy prey to predators or rival gangs who can quickly profile them and these websites also become a new battle ground – a turf to defend from being trashed or hijacked. Hacking into and disrespecting a rival gang’s site is just one more field of engagement.  The threats and disrespect exchanged online are creating a new cause for offline violence as gang members settle disagreements that started online.

Gang sites often use a kind of cryptic language that has evolved between gang members enabling them to convey messages on public sites through language and inferences that others will not understand. (See links to typical sites at the bottom – though when you read this, the links may or may not still be in use as these sites change frequently)

The actual number of hard-core gang sites is hard to estimate, but is assumed to be only a couple of thousand.  These sites are private and much harder to monitor. These are used to plan crimes – the kills and raids on rivals, and the long list of crimes cited above, plus provide a place to brag about their past crimes and document the gang’s ‘history’.

At risk kids

Impressionable youth of either gender can find the secret handshakes, clothing and slang of gang cultures commonly found on gang-affiliated websites, appealing. They may start out in their online exploration of gangs with just an interest in the music, or pictures lauding street gangs, or the gangsta fashion, yet their online actions make it more likely they will be approached for recruiting – online and offline.

Some are drawn to gangs through parties, girls, and drugs. Some want a sense of respect and power. Others want to make money — to help out at home or to have nice clothes, etc.  They may be kids who feel adrift – disconnected at home – lacking in positive role models, or who have few friends or perhaps have moved frequently. The kids may be angry or rebellious and want to lash out. They may grow up in an area with a strong gang presence and gang culture. They may already be in trouble with the law, or are looking for a thrill. Some join for protection because they are picked on by another gang. Most have some real or imagined problem with their families that makes the streets preferable to being home.

It may begin with participation on a wanna-be site where the conversation seems innocuous, but then arguments arise, threats are made and kids are caught in an escalation they had not intended.  “The type of profiling they’re doing of themselves makes them prey to predators and also at odds with and challenging other gangs,” said Manheimer. “So, we’ll see something start on the Internet, and actually turn into an assault or a gang fight that actually results out of Internet profiling.”

Kids drawn to the content posted online that glorifies the gang lifestyle are being invited to parties where the real recruitment and initiation occurs. Most recruits want to be ‘cool’, some young enough to believe that killing is just an extension of the video games they play. Gangs groom these kids with ‘respect’, bling, and attention – something most are missing in their lives.

These young recruits are particularly useful to gangs for a couple of key reasons, they don’t place much value on life and they are hard to identify as they have no prior criminal histories; even if caught their age keeps them out of the worst legal responses.

Cell phones

Cell phones have become as essential to gang members as they are to organized crime groups.  Gangs members may have several prepaid phones and calling cards to ensure their calls are untraceable for any communications about criminal activities, and easily disposable.  They use encrypted internet technologies like VoiceOverIP (VoIP) on products like Skype on their mobile phones or computers to avoid wiretapping – making it nearly impossible for law enforcement to track their actions or crimes.

Gangs use cell phones cameras and video to document crimes or collect information for future crimes, and use GPS coordinate attacks and crimes, as well as surreptitiously monitor those they think might be ratting them out.

They use cell phones to assist in robberies, for extortion, as evidence of accomplished hits, to arrange drug deals, set up transactions, prostitute girls and boys, commit identity theft, and more. Gangs have been known to place a member inside a bank, (or near an ATM, or any other place that cash is transacted) to take photos of likely victims and watch to see who withdraws large sums, then send it to another gang member sitting outside the banks to identify the victim to follow and rob.

Gangs also use cell phones to communicate with members behind bars, allowing incarcerated gang leaders to continue to conduct business, and for members outside to request hits against rivals also serving time. Though cell phones are illegal, prisons appear to have a very hard time of preventing them from getting into the hands of incarcerated gang members.

What to look for

According to the Washington D.C. Metropolitan Police Department, the best defense against gangs begins in the home. Family conversations are critical to debunk the perceived glamour and show gang life for the thuggery it represents. Keeping kids out of gangs in real life now has to include teaching them to avoid becoming targets of propaganda in the virtual world.

In addition to conversations, experts advise watching for the following gang signs:

  • Gang insignia downloaded onto their phones, websites, clothing – this can include what appear to be Major League Baseball logos for the Giants or Yankees, which have been modified to represent gangs.
  • Ringtones or songs glorifying gangs and violence – on cell phones or web pages
  • Pictures of gang leaders or dead gang members
  • Gang colors, or other gang images – this means educating yourself about the colors and signs of gangs in your area
  • Requests for tattoos – or simply showing up with tattoos – or ear piercing (of course, ear piercing alone may be simple fashion statements unrelated to gangs)
  • Gang style cloths, bandanas, gang related jewelry – or perhaps suddenly tilting their baseball cap to one side, or rolling up the cuff of a pant leg. Gang branding may be more subtle in the beginning, are their gang symbols inside their hats or collars?
  • New gang-looking friends, secrecy about friends, sneaking out
  • Change of language – new nickname, phrases you are unfamiliar with,
  • Involvement in any criminal activity – graffiti, vandalism, theft, drugs, etc.
  • Change in interests, grades dropping, cutting school
  • Has your child been injured—boys are often beaten and girls raped as part of their initiation into a gang.

If it looks like your child is headed down the wrong path, get help.  If you are afraid your kid is in a gang, they probably are.
Linda

Useful Articles

Links to gang related public sites – most is just art, photos and music, but they give a flavor of this kind of mentality.  (Note that these sites change all the time, these may become obsolete quickly, but even the names are illustrative)

Asian

Gangster Disciples

Bloods/Piru

Norteño

Brothers of Struggle

People Nation

Crips

Sureños

Folks

Vice Lords

Examples of Gangsta Videos


How to Use the New Facebook Privacy Settings

December 16, 2009

Facebook has taken a laudable step forward in helping consumers maintain their privacy when using the service. These much-anticipated updates in their privacy settings allow users to determine on a post-by-post basis exactly who they are sharing with.

Understanding Facebook’s expanded privacy settings and knowing how to apply them is critical to ensuring your safety and the safety of your children should you, or they, be among the now 350 million Facebook users.

Fortunately, a fantastic instruction guide – replete with screenshots – has been created by Zack Whittaker for ZDNet. This guide includes:

  • Changing exactly who can see what on your profile
  • Changing who can contact you on Facebook
  • Changing application and website privacy settings
  • Changing who can search for you on Facebook
  • Completely blocking people, how and what it does

Other resources you can turn to for understanding and using the new Facebook privacy settings include: Facebook’s explanation video, and Patrick Miller, of PC World, has this created tutorial.

To learn more about what motivated these changes, read Facebook Founder Mark Zuckerberg’s An Open Letter from Facebook blog.

Take the time to review your settings and leverage these new options today.

Linda


Announcing Our New Book “Courageous Parenting”

November 20, 2009

I’ve hinted at it in blogs and on Twitter, but we’re ready to make our announcement – and give free e-copies to those who sign up to receive one!

The new Courageous Parenting anthology will be published in March 2010 in paperback and e-book form. If you sign up on MojoMom.com now, we will send you a free copy of the e-book as soon as it is released. How’s that for a deal?

Amy Tiemann, Ph. D., author of Mojo Mom: Nurturing Your Self While Raising a Family and creator of MojoMom.com has spearheaded this project, here’s her blog post announcing the endeavor.

Our “Courageous Parenting” team of experts, ready to help you move beyond “helicopter parenting”

I had already been planning to announce our final roster of Courageous Parenting anthology contributors, and today turns out to be the perfect day to do so, as this week’s new Time Magazine cover story by Nancy Gibbs puts an exclamation point on the idea that it’s time to end the age of over-parenting. Authors including Lenore Skenazy of Free-Range Kids have been pioneers advancing this trend. Our goal with Courageous Parenting is to expand the conversation by not only providing inspiration to raise independent kids, but also the skills and strategies that parents need in order to do so.

The new Courageous Parenting anthology will be published in March 2010 in paperback and e-book form. If you sign up on MojoMom.com now, we will send you a free copy of the e-book as soon as it is released. How’s that for a deal?

My highest vision for this book is that it will improve families’ lives. In Courageous Parenting, we show you ways that you can become prepared for your children’s growing independence, both by investing in your own personal development, as well as learning parenting tools and strategies that help you reach your parenting goals. This is parenting in the big picture: your kids will not wake up on their 18th birthdays magically transformed into capable, competent young adults. Their development is an ongoing journey! We parents need to learn how to lay that groundwork in small steps that promote increasing capability, responsibility and independence along the way.

It is such a privilege for me to work with these authors. Here is what we will be talking about in Courageous Parenting:

Introduction by me, Amy Tiemann, Ph. D., author of Mojo Mom: Nurturing Your Self While Raising a Family and creator of MojoMom.com

I. The Courage to Invest in Your Own Development

The Transformative Power of Self-Care by Renee Peterson Trudeau, author of The Mother’s Guide to Self Renewal, facilitator of Personal Renewal Groups through ReneeTrudeau.com

Tools for Career Reinvention, Kella Hatcher and Maryanne Perrin, co-founders of Balancing Professionals consulting.

II. Developing Your Courageous Parenting Style

The Courage to Let our Kids Solve Their Own Problems by Maya Frost, author of The New Global Student, creator of Smart Education Design.

The Courage to Become Your Own Parenting “Expert” by Melissa Stanton, author of The Stay-at-Home Survival Guide, writing online at StayatHomeSurvivalGuide.com and Real Life Support for Moms.

The Power of Personal Significance for Kids of All Ages by Amy McCready, founder of Positive Parenting Solutions, offering local and online parent training.

I’m Worried I Worry Too Much But How Do I Stop? by Jamie Woolf, author of Mom-in-Chief, creator of Mom-in-Chief.com

III. Real World Safety Skills for All

Kidpower: Skills for Safety, Skills for Independence by Irene van der Zande, founder of Kidpower, Teenpower, Fullpower International.

How to Say “Yes” to Your Kids’ Online Activities, by Linda Criddle, internet safety and technology expert, author of Look Both Ways, Help Protect Your Family on the Internet, Using the Internet Safely For Seniors for Dummies, the founder of iLookBothWays.com, and president of the Safe Internet Alliance.

IV. Finding your voice and raising it for the community

PunditMom on Mom Bloggers Raising Their Political Voices by Joanne Bamberger, author of the PunditMom blog.

Activist Parents: Challenge and Progress Through the Eyes of MomsRising.org by Kristin Rowe-Finkbeiner, co-founder of MomsRising.org

It Takes a Motherhood by Cooper Munroe and Emily McKhann, founders of TheMotherhood.com

I have spent years developing relationships with these talented experts. Each and every one of them has changed my life in a significant way, and they have the potential to so for you, too!

Sign up now on the MojoMom.com home page to receive a free e-book of the new Courageous Parenting anthology when it comes out in March 2010!

Labels: Courageous Parenting, free e-book offer, Free-Range Kids, helicopter parents, Lenore Skenazy, Nancy Gibbs, overinvolved parenting, Time Magazine


50% of 14yr-olds bullied; most via computer or cell phone

November 16, 2009

A new study in the UK found that half of 14yr-olds are bullied, and most of these are tormented via their computer or mobile phone. The percentages fall as kids get older to 40% among 15yr-olds and 29% among 16 yr-olds. But these are still unacceptably high levels.

Cyberbullying has emerged as the most common form for bullying in the UK, along with name-calling, according to the study of 10,000 teenagers.

In response to the study results, UK Schools Secretary Ed Balls highlighted the positive aspects of the internet, then cautioned, “we also know that mobile phones or computer screens can be used to taunt and bully young people, which can have devastating consequences”.  Balls urged parents to report incidents to their child’s school.

To learn more about cyberbullying and how to effectively stop it, read my Learn Safety article Cyberbullying. In this article, I cover:

  • How to avoid online bullying
  • What to do if someone is bullying you or your child
  • What schools and educators can do about cyberbullying
  • Developing clear, unambiguous steps to put school policies into practice
  • Cyberbullying is a serious and growing problem
  • Bullying deeply affects the bully
  • Additional Resources

You can also check out the brochure Protecting Kids From Cyberbullying, a joint project of LOOKBOTHWAYS and Microsoft.

Linda


Drug Ads in Social Media Scrutinized by FDA

November 15, 2009

drug adsThe Food and Drug Administration held hearings last week to determine whether specific regulations should be implemented to police how far social media sites like Twitter, Wikipedia, blogs and social networks can go in promoting drugs and medical devices.

Strict regulations apply to what medical device and drug makers can claim or advertise in print media or on TV, but the Internet’s rapid pace of change has created an environment where applying existing regulations may not be possible, and where existing regulations don’t adequately address the new medium.

There are thorny issues involved as the FDA tries to determine a set of criteria for:

  • Establishing when 3rd-party content has been substantively influenced by companies seeking to market their products
  • Understand what online messages drug makers are responsible for
  • Determining how companies can achieve balance in ads when the medium has a length limit – like the 140-character Twitter message (the FDA sent warning letters last spring to 14 companies whose online ads were misleading because they did not contain any risk info)
  • When linking to information is appropriate or misleading

The financial stakes in the outcome is high for drug companies and internet service providers interested in directly and indirectly pitch their products, or seeking significant revenue from pharmaceutical companies’ deep advertising pockets.

The stakes for consumers are even higher

After all, it is your health on the line and you need to know if the information you find is accurate and unbiased – or not.

According to a June 2009 study by the Pew Internet & American Life Project, 61% of US adults now look online for medical advice and that those looking online for health information are more likely to visit social-networking sites and look for immediately accessible information that has been posted by someone they feel is in similar situation.

The study also found that of those seeking medical information online, a majority access user-generated health information and 41% have read someone else’s commentary or experience about health or medical issues in an online news group, website or blog.

In light of this research, consumers’ need to know when information has been biased by a drug or medical equipment company is imperative. So is having an obvious, visible means of identifying the trustworthiness of medical information on a site.

For kids and teens, the issues are further heightened. They may be more inclined to search online than bring up a sensitive medical question with their parents. They are significantly less likely than adults to call a doctor or other medical professional over a health issue. Emotional risks like cutting, anorexia & bulimia need to be included in any FDA website/content monitoring. Clear boundaries need to be in place outlining the whether medical advertising can be directed toward minors online – whether it be direct advertising or ‘influenced’ advertising by 3rd-parties.

The outcome of these hearings will impact every one. Stay vigilant.

Linda